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Showing posts with label temporary marriages mu'ta. Show all posts
Showing posts with label temporary marriages mu'ta. Show all posts

Tuesday, October 01, 2013

Syrian Refugee Teens Being Pimped Out To Rich Old Saudi Men

A report from RTL Germany on Syrian refugee teenage girls in Jordan, some as young as 13, who are being pimped out to rich, old Saudi Sheiks through 'matchmakers' who are taking advantage of the dire situation, thanks to Sharia law.

Okay, so they justify what is nothing more than Islamically sanctioned prostitution with their so-called Nikah Mut'ah marriages, but the girls are abused and then discarded when the old perverts have had enough.

The girls are sold with the permission of the parents.



Monday, July 16, 2012

Nikah Mut'ah- Legal Prostitution in Islam - Egypt's Summer Brides

Nikah Mut'ah in Islam is a 'temporary marriage' whereby people can hitch up, do the deed for as long as the contract allows, and then part ways without feeling they've done anything sinful. Although it was permitted during Mohammad's time, the Sunni believe he eventually banned it, whereas the Shia still encourage the practice.

In other words, a man or a woman can be as skanky and promiscuous as they like (though there is a two month waiting period) but that convenient 'Mut'ah' saves their reputation. I'm not sure how they handle the whole issue of needing to be a virgin when they marry, but they've got those hymenoplasties to fix that, I suppose. I wonder if they have to divulge how many mut'ahs they've had when they finally get married permanently, if they can?

But try as they might to justify the practice,  it's really nothing more than Islam-sanctioned prostitution. Take the 'summer marriages' discussed in this article in the Independent, where under-age girls are pawned off (for money) to foreigners visiting Egypt for the summer.

Hundreds of under-age Egyptian girls are entering temporary marriages with rich tourists from the Persian Gulf during the summer in return for money for their families, a US report has found. These unions, dubbed summer marriages, are not legally binding, and end when the foreigners return to their own countries.

The marriages are organised by intermediaries who link wealthy men, mainly from Saudi Arabia, with poor families with young daughters, for commission. The foreign "husbands" give families money and presents akin to a dowry, with the "bride price" ranging between the equivalent of £320 and £3.200.

A recent US State Department report "Trafficking in Persons" found that wealthy men from the Gulf, including Saudi Arabia, the United Arab Emirates and Kuwait, travel to Egypt to buy "temporary" or "summer marriages" with Egyptian females, including girls under 18, and that these arrangements are often facilitated by the girls' parents and marriage brokers. The report found that children involved in the temporary marriages suffer both sexual servitude and forced labour as servants to their "husbands".

Egypt has laws designed to combat trafficking, which state that it is illegal to marry a foreigner when there is an age difference of more than 10 years. Nevertheless, there are ways to circumnavigate this, with one common practice being to forge birth certificates to make the girls appear older, and the men younger. In 2009, a court in Alexandria sentenced two marriage registrars to two years in prison for conducting temporary marriages of hundreds of girls under 18, but non-governmental organisations (NGOs) say that this is the tip of the iceberg, and that more needs to be done to implement existing laws.

Sometimes the girls have no say, others do it out of filial duty to help support the family. And often these girls are taken out of the country where they are then forced to work as servants for the first wife. But whether they are released from the marriage and stay in Egypt, their lives are pretty much ruined especially if they get a kid in the bargain.

Many abandon their offspring out of shame, either taking them to orphanages or leaving them to join thousands of other Egyptian street children. Some girls find themselves cast in a cycle of temporary marriages with Gulf tourists, and others are targeted by Egyptian men who marry them in order to force them into prostitution.

According to Dr Hoda Badran, chair of the Alliance for Arab Women, poverty is a major factor in Mut'ah marriages.

"If those families are in such a need to sell their daughters you can imagine how poor they are. Many times, the girl does not know she is marrying the husband just for the short term. She is young, she accepts what her family tells her, she knows the man is going to help them. If the girl is very poor, sometimes it is the only way out to help the family survive."

Many seem to think they will get more out of these marriages than they actually do. Take "Aziza" who at 17 married a Saudi man almost triple her age. Dr. Badran says he paid £2,120 for the girl, plus a promise of a job for her brother. They were 'married' for a month- he wined and dined her, impregnated her, then dumped her. He had told her she would join him later, but that never happened.

She waited for several months and, by this time heavily pregnant, tried to get hold of him through the Saudi embassy so her child could be formally recognised by him. However, her marriage was not officially registered which meant that Aziza could not prove her claim. She had no choice but to go back to her family and raise her baby as a single mother, something extremely frowned upon in Egypt's conservative society.

I'm sure it eases their pious Muslim consciences to enter into a 'temporary' marriage, but it's just a piece of paper, and if it's not 'registered' I can't imagine it would even be 'legal' in Islam.

Tuesday, June 19, 2012

Tajikistan Imams Warn Women About Temporary Marriages

At least Tajikistan is doing something right. The Sunni Muslim-majority (albeit secular) country is trying to educate its women about those bogus Islamic temporary marriages so popular in Iran. The ones used to legitimize sleeping around. Approved and legal in Iran, it's not legal in Tajikistan and the Mosques are trying to warn women about the inherent problems- like they have no legal rights to anything once that temporary marriage contract is over.
It's a relatively recent phenomena, and becoming more prevalent.

Recently, at a gathering following Friday Prayers on June 8, prominent Dushanbe Imam Eshon Abdul-Basir Saidov warned women against entering into temporary marriages, which religious leaders say have become a trend in Dushanbe over the past two or three years.

Echoing concerns voiced by his fellow imams, Saidov says dozens of Tajik women have fallen victim to "Iranian-style temporary marriage," known as mut'a.

Fairly widespread, and legally approved in predominantly Shia Iran, mut'a is a fixed-term marriage in Shi'a Islam which automatically dissolves upon the completion of a term agreed upon by both parties prior to the marriage.

Mut'a is not recognized by Sunni Islam, which is followed by the majority of Tajik Muslims.

Nevertheless, says Zurafo Rahmoni, the head of the Culture Department of Tajikistan's Islamic Revival Party, "nowadays we increasingly hear about Tajik women entering into mut'a matrimony with Iranian citizens living here."

Tajikistan has a sizeable Iranian community, the majority of which reside in Dushanbe and other major cities.

"These women are ultimately being left with no rights or protection both during and after their so-called marriages," Rahmoni says. "In all cases, the men eventually leave the country, leaving their temporary wives behind. The most painful part is that sometimes children are born into such unions."

Rahmoni blames the trend on the "dire" economic situation that prevails in Tajikistan.

"Many Tajik men have left the country for migrant work," he says. "There are foreign men coming to work in Tajikistan, and that's why the [mut'a] practice is on the rise in Tajikistan. Social and economic hardship are contributing factor to the rise of this phenomenon in recent years."

Imams have gone so far as to call it 'legalized prostitution', "un-Islamic" "contradictory to Tajik religious beliefs and traditions."

"Mut'a is an attempt to legalize prostitution," says Imam Saidov. "It shouldn't be recognized as a religious matrimony, and we consider it a sin."

In his Friday sermon, religious leader Saidov said Tajik women's "naivety and lack of awareness of their religious and civil rights" was to blame for their falling victim to temporary marriages.

Since these women are unfamiliar with temporary marriages, they are ignorant participants.

For Maya, a 25-year-old hairdresser from Dushanbe, her temporary marriage was initially "love at first sight" with a man from a foreign culture.

Maya, who declined to give her full name, said she met her former partner -- an Iranian businessman -- a year ago in a city restaurant popular with well-to-do foreigners.

A marriage proposal came "surprisingly swiftly," and Maya accepted. She says the religious marriage ceremony was conducted by a friend of the groom, with two others attending as witnesses.

"He mentioned something about short-term marriages, but I didn't quite understand it, I thought he was just being cautious," Maya admits. "But he left six months later. I live with my baby daughter. I don't get any support from him, financial or moral."

The women are being told to register those marriages with the secular authorities, and to sign a prenuptial agreement. That's pretty darn progressive or a Muslim country.

In addition to not recognizing religious marriages in any form, they also ban polygamy, SMS-text message divorces, and underage marriages. In fact, they want to raise the legal age to marry (for women) to 22. Currently, the legal age to marry is 18.